Sandy's Yoga Blog

Delicious Veggie Recipe

This simple, southern Italian dish is a family favorite in my house. Take advantage of the summer bounty of fresh tomatoes and basil and enjoy!

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photo from Smitten Kitchen

Orecchiette

- 2 pints of cherry or grape tomatoes, sliced in half lengthwise
- 6 cloves of garlic, minced
- 1/2 cup of good quality extra virgin olive oil
- handful of fresh, chopped basil leaves (for a different taste, you can substitute 2 large handfuls of chopped arugula)
- salt & pepper to taste
- Parmesan cheese
- orecchiette (little ears) or 9 oz. of any fresh pasta, cooked and drained

Heat oil in a heavy skillet over medium heat. Add tomatoes and garlic and let simmer for 20 - 30 minutes, until sauce starts to thicken. Add salt and pepper to taste. Stir in basil or arugula and cook for two minutes. Mix into cooked pasta. Sprinkle with grated parmesan and enjoy! You can't mess this up -- it's ok to add more tomatoes, olive oil, and garlic. If you use cherry or grape tomatoes, this recipe is good all year round!

Namaste!

Sandy Pradas



Good News about Yoga and Osteoporosis

Photoxpress_293313There's exciting news in the world of yoga therapy: Dr. Loren Fishman has been conducting a long-term study on the benefits of yoga for osteoporosis, and the results are very promising. One group has been doing yoga regularly for over two years, and a control group is not doing yoga. The yoga group has shown statistically significant improvement in bone density of the spine and hip, while the non-yogis have lost bone density during this period. (Let's hope that they get to be part of the yoga group eventually!) Most people with osteopenia were returned to normal bone density, while one woman with an osteoporatic hip regained the bone density of a healthy 25 - 30 year-old!

This is great news, especially considering the fact that nearly 55% of everyone over age 50 has low bone mass, which can lead to fractures. 

At this time, the DEXA scan is the best way to measure bone mineral density, so if you're over 50 and haven't been tested, you might want to ask your doctor for a DEXA scan.

The best time to prevent osteoporosis is while you're under age 30. Exercise and get lots of calcium from your diet to store up as much bone mass as possible. But if you're over 30, it's not too late. Eat a healthy diet that's rich in calcium; avoid carbonated beverages and limit salt, both of which use up our precious calcium stores; and do yoga! 

Keeping it simple, exercising puts pressure on the bones, which stimulates them to grow stronger. But not all exercise is equal. Many weight-bearing exercises such as running, tennis, etc., have been directly linked to arthritis in older adults -- these exercises stimulate bone growth but can destroy joints. Yoga incorporates the principle of dynamic tension: one muscle or muscle group opposes the action of another. The resulting force on the bones is much greater than that of gravity and much more effective than weight-bearing exercise alone. Bones are stimulated at many points and can become stronger without sacrificing joint health. In fact, yoga is an excellent prescription to both prevent and treat arthritis as well. 

If you have osteoporosis, you should avoid rounding of the spine, and you may need modifications for other postures as well. Seek out an experienced teacher or yoga therapist to create a practice that will keep you safe while allowing you to gain bone strength at the same time. If you're interested in Loren Fishman's work, he has an excellent book on Osteoporosis: 

 

Namaste!
Sandy Pradas

Keeping Up with Your Practice

This week I've heard from several people who are frustrated by not being able to have a consistent yoga practice. Mothers with young children, yoga teachers, and even retired folks all had one thing in common: not being able to find time for themselves. Our lives are so busy that it's easy to fill every moment before we flop our exhausted selves into bed at night. 

I try to have a daily yoga practice, but there have always been times in my life when it's been a struggle. A couple of months ago I attended an inspiring workshop and came home all gung-ho and looking forward to stepping on the mat the next morning. But I woke up exhausted. I had to teach later, and I decided to conserve my energy for my students and resume my personal practice the next morning. But I woke up sick. I had caught a flu that wiped me out for several days. As soon as I started feeling better, I hurt my wrist carrying a heavy grocery bag. I could do a modified practice, but I was very frustrated that I couldn't apply the wonderful things I learned in the workshop. It seemed like a long time passed before I got back on track. 

Life is like that. And most of us are following the path of the householder yogi. This means that even though yoga is an important part of our lives, we are also in relationships, we have jobs, and other interests to attend to. Sometimes taking care of our children or our aging parents is our yoga practice. Sometimes the body needs an extra hour of sleep more than it needs asana, and that's a practice -- listening to your body. So there's no need to feel guilty or feel like a bad yogi if life is presenting other ways in which to practice. But at the same time, we know how good we feel after practice, and we know that the benefits ripple out to all of the others in our lives. We know that caregivers need to recharge their batteries in order to continue caring. And we know that if we don't take care of our health and mental well being, we won't function well in any area of our lives. And let's face it -- we like being yogis, and yogis need to do yoga!

So don't beat yourself up if you miss a practice, but try to get back on track as soon as possible before not practicing becomes an ingrained habit. 

Here are a few hints to keep a steady practice:

- Remember that practice is a Tapas -- or discipline. Just do it! For many people, practicing first thing in the morning is the best time -- before the phone starts ringing and people start making demands on you. Can you get up before your kids do? Can you go to your mat as soon as they get on the bus? Can you spare a half hour before you go to work? Carve out a time and stick to it -- even a short practice is better than no practice.

- Watch out for time wasters. We feel like we have no extra time, but there are usually a couple of hours that we could recoup by spending less time surfing the net, watching T.V., etc. Remember that magical quality of yoga: Taking the time to do it seems to create more time! After practice the mind is clear, we are more efficient, and it seems that we have plenty of time in the day to do what needs to be done. 

- Remember that pranayam is a practice too. Even if you're unable to do asana, you can probably spend 10 - 15 minutes breathing. Or how about meditating before bed time? It will quiet the mind and help you get a good night's sleep.

- Go to class! If you keep getting bogged down by family, chores, or a big pile of papers on your desk, step outside of your environment to practice. Getting out and going to class ensures that you will have an uninterrupted practice. 

Namaste!

Sandy Pradas


Green Tip

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Why not take advantage of the power of the sun to dry your clothes outside? In my neighborhood, the homeowner's association doesn't allow clotheslines (something that I hope will change soon), but you can buy folding racks at Bed, Bath & Beyond, Costco, Target, etc. While I can't put sheets on these racks, I can dry everything else including towels, which saves a lot of energy compared to using the automatic clothes dryer. On a hot summer day, clothes can dry pretty quickly. Towels will come out looking more crispy than fluffy, but they will still be soft to use, and the smell of clothing dried in fresh air is fantastic!

Namaste!
Sandy Pradas

Taking on Other People's Problems

Lately I've been frustrated by a few loved ones who've been walking headfirst, eyes wide open, into a bad idea. The fact that it's a bad idea is usually obvious to everyone except the person involved. Family and friends circle the wagons and try to help, but often the person isn't interested and continues down his or her own path. Sound familiar?

One of my favorite benefits of yoga is that it enables us to see ourselves. The "witness" or silent observer part of our consciousness, which is usually obscured by the busy mind, begins to come forth as we tame the mind through focused practice, breathing, and meditation. The witness is like that deep, quiet friend that never gets a chance to be heard over the loud, chatty ones. As the witness comes forth, suddenly we can see ourselves very clearly. 

Our shadow sides come up: "I'm acting out of jealousy." "I'm being greedy." "I want all the attention." 

Our goodness is evident: "I really want what's best for him." "I want to help." "I'm so full of love." 

And our ridiculousness comes out: "If I had curly hair I'd be happy."  "If I made more money than my brother, I'd be happy." "He was rushed with me when I called him at work today. He must not love me anymore." "If I can own (fill in the blank) I'll be happy."

Yoga shines the light on our thoughts and shows us that our thinking is faulty. We come to know deep in our bones what is true and what is right for us, and while we're not immune to making bad decisions, we're less likely to. 

But what do you do when your loved ones aren't in that space -- when they can't see themselves? Sometimes we can get so caught up in another's life that we suffer just as much as if it were our own. If we do this long enough, we can get sick -- physically and emotionally. Stress is stress, and it takes its toll regardless of  the source. How can you help without absorbing other people's stuff?  I suggest the following:

1. Dharma: Try to help. But remember the concept of dharma: Doing your life's work without being attached to the outcome. Your help may be unwanted, unappreciated, or even unnecessary. (Is it possible that you could be wrong and they could be right?) Try your best, offer love and support, but learn to detach yourself from the outcome. 

2. Karma: Remember that each of us must walk our own path. While you might be able to step in and save someone a lot of agony, often the person needs to go down this particular path in order to learn important lessons before they can heal. This can be heartbreaking to watch, as in the case of a young person with promise throwing his life away for drugs, but the truth is that there is often little we can do to help until the person wants to be helped. 

3. Surrender: If you get to the point where you've tried everything and it seems that you're only wasting your energy, it's probably time to withdraw. As difficult as it is, you have to let go and let the person play out their own karma, and use your energy to play out yours. Surrender. You can't control everything and everyone. Give in to the flow of life, and find a way to live without being engulfed in the flames of someone else's fire. If you're already down deep in the coals, get help and fight your way back up. Save yourself so you can continue to be a blessing to others. 

4. Be a light: We cannot take the darkness out of another person; all we can do is set a good example. Be a light unto yourself, and perhaps you will illuminate another.

Namaste!

Sandy Pradas


On edge? Can't sleep? A few tips to clear the mind:

Affirmation: "If it's mine it can stay, if not go away."   "I am OK in this moment."

Cleansing breaths: Take a big inhale from the bottom of your belly, lean forward and exhale out the frustration with a loud sigh. Imagine your problems leaving your body with your breath.

Throw it out: Make a fist and hold it near your belly. Imagine pulling up your problem as you draw your fist up through the center of your body, past the crown of your head, then exhale loudly and throw it out like you're throwing a baseball.

Different perspective: 1. Sit quietly, close your eyes, and view your problem from the third eye -- not the mind -- but the third eye area between the brows.

Listening Meditation

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I took a walk on this beautiful day, and as soon as I stepped outside I heard a symphony of birds. There were layers and layers of bird songs, so I decided to simply focus on listening during my walk. Sometimes I heard the sound as a whole, and at other times a certain sound would stand out for a moment, and then another would take its place. As I continued to walk, my ears seemed to open wider. In addition to the birds, I heard laughter in the distance, children playing, airplanes, someone coughing, a bee buzzing, dogs barking, the sound of my footsteps. All of the sounds seemed to be unusually rich. I was amazed at the musical quality that rang out from two children's voices as they played in their yard. As cars passed, I heard the sound of rubber rolling over the smooth pavement -- it was not unpleasant. Even the sound of a lawnmower, which I usually abhor, didn't bother me a bit. I noticed at least three different sounds coming out of that one machine. 

It was not until I noticed a couple of "Tea Party" placards in someone's yard that my mind started to run off on a tangent, and I realized that up until that moment I was completely absorbed in the world of sound. My mind was quiet, calm, and non-judgmental. I was in a state of meditation. Give it a try sometime -- you can do this indoors or out -- wherever there is sound. Notice any grasping toward sounds you deem pleasant, or any revulsion to sounds that you have decided that you do not like. As you become more and more absorbed, does this change? 


Namaste!

Sandy Pradas

Inspiration

I'm getting ready for a trip, so I thought I'd make it easy on myself and leave you with some of my favorite yoga poems. Enjoy!

Namaste!
Sandy Pradas


Every tree, every living thing as it grows, says this truth: 
You harvest what you sow. 
With life as short as a half-taken breath,
don’t plant anything but love. 
                                      -Rumi



The Guesthouse

This being human is a guesthouse.
Every morning a new arrival.
A joy, a depression, a meanness.
Some momentary awareness comes as an unexpected visitor.


Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows who violently sweep
your house empty of its furniture.
Still, treat each guest honorably.


He may be clearing you out for some new delight.
The dark thought, the shame, the malice—
meet them all at the door laughing and invite them in.
Be grateful for whoever comes,
for each guest has been sent as a guide from beyond. 

                                       -Rumi


O friend, understand:
The body is like the ocean
rich with hidden treasures.
Open your inmost chamber and light its lamp.

 

Within the body are gardens,
rare flowers, peacocks, the inner Music;
within the body is a lake of bliss, and
on it the white soul swans take their joy.

                                 --Mirabai


I have learned so much from God
That I can no longer call myself
a Christian, a Hindu, a Muslim
a Buddhist, a Jew.

The Truth has shared so much of itself
with me that I can no longer call myself
a man, a woman, an angel
or even pure soul.

Love has befriended Hafiz so completely
it has turned to ash and freed me 
of every concept and image
my mind has ever known.
                                   --Hafiz

Mastering Yoga

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I attended a yoga workshop this weekend, and my husband asked, "Why are you going? You already know everything." Hmmm. I've been practicing 11 years, teaching for 9. I've learned a whole lot -- from amazing teachers, from not-so-good teachers, from students, and from myself and what comes up in my own practice. And one thing I learned early on is that you never master yoga. It's like an onion -- you peel away a layer only to discover that there are still many more layers underneath. 

For most people, yoga practice starts with asana -- focusing on postures and perhaps trying to master them and move on to more challenging versions. But even our postures open up and change over time. You might think you have a posture perfected, but one day on the mat something shifts, and you go to a new place that you've never been to before. As you advance in your practice, you start to realize that postures are just the stepping stones to get to the deeper aspects of yoga. You start studying the philosophy, playing with meditation, and pranayama. Maybe going off to explore a certain aspect very deeply, and then that leads you to another place, which in turn leads to another place. 

And while you are peeling back the layers of yoga, you are also being peeled! Little by little, all the heavy baggage that weighs you down starts to work its way up from the deep recesses of body and mind so you can look at it, process it, and release it: old stuff from childhood, anger, insecurity, resentment, fear, physical and emotional trauma, defensiveness -- whatever is in there.  All the while, you are becoming more spacious, more open. Your understanding of yourself deepens, followed by your understanding of others. Your sense of connection grows -- connection to self, spirit, and all living things -- and you realize that you are not separate and alone. You become more alive, awake, and aware. As my tag line on the website says, you "live wide open." 

I'm at the point in my practice that I don't have to go to class. I can go into a meditative state, and postures and pranayams will erupt spontaneously. Sometimes I do something completely new that I haven't seen before. But when I go to classes and workshops I always learn something new, and it inspires my personal practice and my teaching. And more importantly, I am in sangha -- a community of like-minded people, of other seekers on this path that I -- that we -- have chosen. Practicing in the energy and safety of a group of people who are willing to surrender their egos and grow their souls is a beautiful thing indeed!

Namaste!

Sandy Pradas


Joyful Heart Yogis Plant Themselves                in Costa Rica! 

It was starting to look like the yoga retreat that would never end ... with one flight after the other being cancelled because of heavy snow at home, we ended up staying a whole extra week. Did we mind? Well, here are some of the yogis when they found out that their first flight home was cancelled and they would have to be "stuck" in Costa Rica two more days: 

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This scenario repeated itself two more times, so we were forced to stay in a perfect climate surrounded by beauty everywhere, and we had to continue eating mountains of fresh, juicy fruit; freshly caught fish; and the world's best coffee. 

Costa Rica has a special magic that immediately makes you want to slow down, take a look around, and enjoy. That magic combined with twice-a-day yoga made noodles of our yogis right away. By Day Three I had to abandon my usual call to "pull up any tension that needs to be released and let it go with a big sigh" because there obviously wasn't any tension. They were as happy and relaxed as people could be. We practiced our yoga outdoors: in the rainforest, on the beach, and in one of the most delightful gardens any of us has ever seen. Everywhere we went, the beauty was breathtaking. We did yoga in the rain (we had a roof over our heads but open air all around); we did yoga in the dark, with the songs of the frogs as our music; we were serenaded by the sound of the surf, and we had a beautiful morning session in a garden full of flowers, while a lovely breeze wafted the most beautiful fragrance over us. 

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Our balances poses were awesome -- steady and strong without the usual worries and busyness that plagues us at home. Our muscles were supple and limber from the warm air and the extra yoga classes. And the yogi minds were in full bloom. When we woke up to rain one morning, I wondered if they'd be upset about it, but I found them all sitting in the yoga pavilion with big smiles on their faces, saying "Isn't it beautiful?!" That's the kind of people I like to travel with! We had good meditations. Some of us had moments of becoming one with nature. We watched the constantly changing sky around the volcano and likened it to a sped-up version of the constant changes of life. When Jorge got nervous on our small plane ride, he said he realized that it was just him and his reaction. Our yoga came in handy often: deep breathing for those who get nervous on planes or to help us up steep hikes, bird-watching without straining the neck, twisting the trunk to look over the side of a boat -- again without straining the neck. 

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But yoga is just a part of a Joyful Heart Yoga retreat. What else did we do? We walked through cloud forests and rainforests w/ a naturalist guide who taught us about the plants, birds, and animals that we saw. We relaxed in natural volcanic hot springs, visited a waterfall, ate lots of good food and drank lots of good drinks, lounged at the beach, swam in a clear blue ocean and in beautiful swimming pools, had spa treatments, zip-lined, took a boat ride, saw an amazing local fishing operation and a community of pelicans who like to hang out there, we went snorkeling and experienced the world under the sea, visited a coffee plantation, saw amazing exhibits of pre-Columbian art and gold, and heard a pretty good rendition of Ave Maria in the National Theater by one of our local guides. We had time to wander off alone, and we enjoyed each other's company at meals. I always say my groups have the most interesting people -- it was great getting to know each other better, and I can't wait to do it again! I'm working on some YouTube videos of the trip, but in the meantime, enjoy the photos on this page as well as the Costa Ricapage. If you subscribe to this blog, you can see the photos by entering the website and going to "Sandy's Yoga Blog." 

Namaste,

Sandy Pradas

Natural Remedies

Winter is well underway, so it's a good time to talk about natural remedies. First, let me make it clear that I am not a doctor and this is not medical advice. I'm simply telling you about some things that I do to make myself more comfortable. If you are sick, have a fever, infection, etc., please go to the doctor.


Dry Skin - With little humidity in the air, many of us are suffering from dry, flakey, itchy skin. Some remedies:

-dry brushing the skin before you shower to exfoliate

-massaging sesame, olive, or almond oil into your skin and scalp before showering (be careful not to slip in the tub) and slathering on oil or another moisturizer after showering while the skin is still wet

-use natural soap, such as an olive oil or oatmeal based soap that doesn't have harsh detergents

-massage a drop or two of olive oil into your face. If skin is super dry, you can put the olive oil on top of your regular moisturizer. Use a high-quality extra virgin oil that would be good for salads or dipping bread. This can give a lot of relief and usually does not clog pores.

-drink plenty of water throughout the day

-swallowing a tablespoon of flaxseed oil or ghee every day can help moisturize from the inside out -- especially if you have a very low-fat diet.


Sore Throat - I put a nickel-sized drop of oil into my palm (almond, jojoba, and grapeseed are good carrier oils, but I often use sesame or olive because it's handy) and add a couple of drops of clove oil -- essential oil from the plant -- do not use a fragrance oil. Rub palms together and pat it into your throat, especially around the glands. Clove oil is a powerful infection fighter, and I always use this at the first sign of a sore throat. When I wake up, the sore throat is gone. You can also gargle with a mixture of clove oil and sesame oil, and rub it into sore gums. Do not swallow clove oil and do not put it on your skin undiluted -- it will burn.


Dry Throat - Gargle with sesame oil to moisturize the throat. Make sure to drink plenty of water during the day, and adding a humidifier to your home may help. A mudra that brings moisture to the throat and eyes is to place your thumb over your pinky finger and press. The right hand will bring moisture to the right side of the throat, and the left works on the left side. Just do both together...


Respiratory discomfort - basil and/or oregano help with respiratory issues. You can pour boiling water over the herbs and let it steep for 10 minutes before drinking. You can use essential oils of basil or oregano by mixing a few drops with a quarter-size drop of oil. Rub into your chest, place a bit under your nose, or just put it on cotton and inhale the aroma. I use this while flying as well -- I put a little into my nostrils to avoid viruses that may be floating around. 


Aches and pains due to cold weather, arthritis, etc. - turmeric. Mix a tablespoon of the spice into a cup of warm milk, honey, and a drop of almond extract. Or you can buy turmeric capsules at a health food store. I like the New Chapter brand. This is used as an anti-inflammatory, anti-septic, etc. in India. I've had students use it with good results.


Stay warm and cozy -- curl up with a good book, a cup of tea, and a comfy blanket whenever you can take a break! 


Namaste!

Sandy Pradas

Please Mind the Gap 

If you've been on the London subway, you've heard that oh-so-polite voice urging you to "please mind the gap," between the train and the platform as you're about to step off. Those words are fitting for my latest topic -- nothingness ... no-thingness ... the void ... the space between ... the gap. 

Every now and then we find ourselves in a gap: A place where something has ended and nothing else has yet begun. Maybe you've lost your job, have just ended a relationship, moved to a different city, just graduated from college, someone close has died. These are the biggies. Suddenly there is a void in your life -- where there was once a lot of activity, suddenly there is nothing and you don't know what to do with yourself. It's very common to rush to fill that space -- with anything, with anyone. We are uncomfortable with nothingness, with waiting, with silence. But Osho puts it beautifully: nothingness is not just nothing – it is all. It is vibrant with possibilities. It is absolute potential.

Our yoga practice gives us lots of opportunities to "mind the gap." We start out small, in the space between the breath. At first just watching, then maybe experimenting with expanding that space. There is a gap when we are holding a posture -- we've done the work to get in, and now we're just hanging out there. Can you just be in that space as you are, or do you start wondering when it will be over and what will be next? There is the gap that I force you to take between poses to breathe, feel, and be aware of how the posture has affected you on various levels. All of this practice on a small scale gets you ready for the bigger gap of savasana and meditation. And that in turn is practice for being in the gaps of life. 

If you can simply "be" -- without rushing to fill empty space with words or busyness -- you allow for the flow of creative potential. You allow time to get to know yourself and what you'd really like to do next. You allow life to unfold ... you allow the universe to present you with a gift that meets your needs, rather than rushing out and grabbing anything you can get ahold of, regardless of whether it's a good fit. Again, Osho puts it beautifully: All you can do now is to relax into this nothingness. Fall into this silence between the words. Watch the gap between the outgoing and incoming breath. And treasure each empty moment of the experience ... Something sacred is about to be born.

Namaste!

Sandy Pradas 

Peace on Earth, Goodwill to Men

image.phpPeace on Earth, Goodwill to Men: the classic Christmas message. But looking around the globe, with all the wars and unrest, peace on earth seems very far away if not altogether impossible. Sometimes it seems as though we are completely helpless to do anything, but that's not the case. During this Holiday season -- and hopefully beyond -- we can monitor the little tiny wars that flicker across our hearts and minds throughout the day: The irritation that rises up against our family members over the smallest slights ... The annoyance at all of the other people on the road and in the stores who are getting in our way and holding us up, as if we should have the place all to ourselves. 

Can we ask the kids to put the dishes in the dishwasher without the edge in our voices? When stuck in traffic, can we take a breath and relax and just let it be what it is? When someone passes us, can we not react -- not take it as an act of hostility? Let's imagine that we are giving everyone who crosses our path a Holiday gift -- the gift of being pleasant and peaceful. Maybe doing a small favor if you can, like letting a harried mother ahead of you in the grocery line, or throwing the neighbor's newspaper closer to their door when you're out on a walk. There are a million little opportunities for kindness. Let's try it -- be nice, and watch it ripple out. 

Peace, La Paz, Shalom, Shanti, Salam and Happy Holidays!

Sandy Pradas

Holiday Gift Ideas   

Whether you're looking for a gift for a yogi or you're a yogi looking for a gift for a loved one, here are some ideas for the Holiday season:

The gift of yoga - perfect for your friend who already loves yoga or for trying to introduce yoga to someone who hasn't tried it yet. Most places offer certificates in various amounts. For Joyful Heart Yoga Certificates, click here, and scroll down to the bottom of the page: Gift Certificates. 

A beautiful yoga bag to carry your mat in style - Kim Michie has unique designs that fit a larger mat and include a pocket for cell phone, keys, and even your shoes! http://www.kimmichie.com/

A yoga kit - a mat, a candle, and some nag champa incense will get someone off to a good start in their home practice. If you want to splurge, you can add a meditation cushion. All are available from Whole Foods. 

The gift of massage - most people would love a massage but for some reason, many don't want to pay for it themselves. In Vienna/McLean area I recommend Northern Virginia Massage Center (try Kristen Waters!). http://www.novamassage.com/default.aspx    and in Alexandria, I recommend Alexandria Myotherapy (try Sheri Bergen!) http://alexmyo.com/

A yoga getaway for you and your friend - there's still space to join us on our warm-weather yoga retreat to Costa Rica. Click here for details: Yoga in Costa Rica.

Gifts from the Heart: 
- Write a letter, poem, or song to tell someone how much they mean to you.
- Write each quality that you love about someone on a card, put the cards in a decorative box, and wrap it.
- Make a scrap book that captures your relationship or a special period of time with your loved one. Include photos, written memories, inside jokes, etc. 
- Give coupons offering your beloved quiet time alone, help with chores, a walk in the woods, movie night, a homemade candlelight dinner, etc. 

Namaste and Happy Holidays!
Sandy Pradas


Taking Care of No. 1

I recently went to Georgia to take a very interesting class called Medical Issues: Integrating Medical Knowledge with Intuitive Healing. This was taught by a very knowledgeable physical therapist and one of those rare gems in the U.S.: an M.D. who is also open to alternative methods of healing. One of the most profound lessons that I want to bring to my students is the fact that our thoughts, our beliefs, and our reactions to what goes on in the world around us has a direct link to our physical health. 

To put it very simply, the brain sends signals to every cell in the body. If our thoughts are anxious, stressed, or panicky, the brain will send out stress hormones to get us ready for fight or flight: our eyes dilate; heart rate and blood pressure increases; the body's energy and blood supply move away from intestines and other organs to go to the major muscles, heart, lungs, and brain so you can fight or run for you life. This is the sympathetic nervous system in action, and the body's reaction is the same whether you are facing a real live tiger or you're just stuck in traffic.

According to Dr. Christiane Northrup, if stress keeps the body in a constant state of fight-or-flight readiness, white blood cells get dumped into the bloodstream, the immune system and bone marrow become depleted, your skin becomes thin, your bones become weaker, your muscles and connective tissue break down, your body develops abnormal insulin metabolism, your tissues retain fluids, your arms and legs bruise more easily, your moods tend toward depression, and your adrenals become exhausted. This is often coupled with poor nutrition and impaired digestion, and can lead to infectious diseases, autoimmune disorders, and cancer. 

On the other hand if your thoughts are peaceful, if you can be in a difficult situation without spinning out of control, your parasympathetic nervous system is operating. It promotes relaxation and rejuvenation by conserving your body's energy and allowing vital organs to rest when they aren't being called into action. 

Northrup puts it like this: "Any thought pattern that engages the parasympathetic nervous system puts deposits into your health bank. . . and any thoughts that cause sympathetic nervous system activity makes withdrawals from that bank." 

Clearly it's not good to be stressed all or most of the time. But with our busy lives, what do can we do about it? We have to slow down. It's vital to our health, and without our health we can't enjoy our lives and our loved ones. We can't take care of our children and/or aging parents if we are falling apart ourselves. I think the following list is absolutely essential for every human being:

1. Realize that you are important and that you deserve time each day to care for and nurture yourself

2. Eat healthy food. Our cells are made up primarily from what we eat and drink. Are your cells made from whole, healthy, nutritious foods or are they made from McDonalds? (I'll write more about ways to eat healthy in the next article.)

3. Excercise. You've told me countless times: if you skip your yoga practice you can feel it in your body right away. Carve out time to practice yoga, take a walk ... whatever does your body good.

4. Relax. You know that running around from the time you get up until you drop into bed exhausted isn't working. This is no way to live. Not only is it not enjoyable, but it's detrimental to your health. Carve out time to relax. Meditate, watch the sun set, curl up in a comfy chair and read, take a bubble bath. 

The time you carve out for yourself each day will indeed be worth it. You will see and feel the benefits, and so will your friends and family. We have gotten way off track allowing ourselves to be so busy -- it's time to take back control of our lives and our time and start spending it in ways that are worthwhile and fulfilling. 

Namaste!

Sandy Pradas


Acceptance

Long-time students may notice that this sounds familiar. It's an article that I wrote several years ago and read to my classes, but it still rings true:


All suffering is caused by the difference between what is actually happening and the way you want it to happen. This can involve:

-other people’s behavior

-situations: jobs, finances, family dynamics/relationships, health, aging


Learning acceptance is a wonderful healing gift that you can give to yourself. Everything you experience is part of your journey through life. It’s an opportunity or a learning experience -- maybe a wake-up call. Whatever it is, embrace it because it can put you further ahead on the path. Surely you have all experienced something that you initially thought was bad only to discover later that it turned out for the best or lead to personal growth.


Acceptance isn’t giving in or being passive. I once heard acceptance compared to aikido. Aikido works with the energies of push and pull. When someone pulls you towards them, instead of resisting and trying to pull away, you move toward them, using their momentum so they have no power over you. Likewise, acceptance means going with the flow, rolling with the changes, and using the energy in a situation for healing.


I am not talking about being a doormat and letting people walk all over you. Sometimes accepting means knowing when to let go, when to move on, or when to say “No.” If taking on more responsibilities at work or on committees will create a disturbance or bring your life out of balance, accept the fact and say “No.”  


When you accept a situation as it really is, you’ll be in control, you won’t be so fearful, the situation won’t have so much power over you, and you’ll know what to do.


Accept what is happening in your life. Even the unpleasant parts. This is truly the way to peace.


Stop fighting.

Stop struggling.

Stop wallowing.

Stop yearning.


Stop pushing away the truth, and put that energy to better use.

Lovingly accept yourself and the circumstances of your life, and then extend that loving acceptance to the other people in your life.


Begin to see life as an exciting adventure. Be curious. What will happen next? Where will this lead? What will I learn? 


Remember that this is your life right now. It’s not something that will happen later—this is it!


Namaste!

Sandy Pradas


Yoga in Italy

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We're back from Italy, and this retreat was an absolutely delightful experience! The combination of the vibrant city life of Rome and the serenity of the countryside in Puglia could not have been more perfect. Sixteen Joyful Hearts (technically 15, as Ann joined us a little later) arrived in Rome a little tired from the flight but eager to explore, so "Giorgio" took us on a walking tour. First stop: pizza! Then we went to the Trevi Fountain to admire the beautiful art, partake in the traditional coin tossing, and have the first of many gelatos. By the time we made it to the Spanish Steps, only Susan had the energy to climb to the top. After a little R&R, we met for a delicious dinner at Alex Cafe, a glass restaurant on the Via Veneto, and then walked to the Hotel Eden for a drink and live music in a lounge with a great view of the city. 

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We had some free time the next day. Some explored, some shopped, and some slept. We met after lunch to begin the next leg of our adventure: traveling south to Puglia, an agricultural area famous for excellent olive oil and wine, fresh produce, friendly people, and relatively few tourists. Our destination was Santa Maria del Sole, a masseria (farm house) inhabited by a small commune of lovely souls who open their home to yogis from all over the world. As soon as we got out of the van, we knew we were in a special place. The air was fresh and pure, the beautiful white buildings were framed by ancient olive trees, and there was the promise of a delightfully tempting fragrance wafting from the kitchen. We had already met Salvatore, PJ, and Marco at the airport, and now we were greeted by Ilaria, Antonella, and Hillary, who showed us to our rooms. Later, we would meet Guilia and Comasia. Some of the rooms were trulli -- round stone houses with cone-shaped roofs, and others were part of the farm house. The building was from the 1600s -- the stone and brick frame still strong -- and it was lovingly restored by Salvatore. All of the rooms were clean, bright, and simply decorated. Ann and Dennis had a particularly interesting room. They called it their "hobbit house," as it was a trullo with a low archway that Dennis soon learned required ducking to pass through! 

After traveling such a long way, we needed yoga, so after checking into our rooms, we headed straight to the yoga studio. I've taught yoga in many amazing places, but this room had something really special. It was made of white-washed stone and had a rounded ceiling and many stone arches. It felt holy in there. I think the shape of the room contains and circulates the energy. I was surprised to learn that it used to be a horse stable, but that's also interesting, as horses are symbols of freedom and carrying one in new directions -- perfect for the energy of a yoga studio. We practiced every morning and every evening at 7:00, and the yoga felt even more delicious here. 

After yoga we headed to the porch for an outdoor, candlelight dinner. The food was vegetarian, and I was a little concerned because I knew that a lot of people in our group were not vegetarians. But this was Italian vegetarian, and I was relieved to hear people oohing and aah-ing over the appearance of the food and then moaning and groaning over its deliciousness. It was truly a magnificent meal. The secret is that all of the food is made from fresh, seasonal ingredients, and while cooking they listen to nice music to ensure that good energy and love goes into every dish. (I heard a lot of Snatam Kaur coming from the kitchen.) The olive oil was from their own olive groves, and the wine was produced nearby, as were all of the fresh cheeses. Produce is abundant in the area, so there's no shortage of fruits and vegetables. Bob told me that he would have never considered eating a vegetarian diet, but he was fully enjoying every meal and wasn't even going to eat the fish that they planned to serve us a few days later. (And he didn't -- he stuck to the pasta and veggies.) After dinner I was charmed by the way the residents sang songs while they cleaned the dishes.

The rest of the week was filled with a combination of free time, yoga, and sightseeing. For relaxation, we strolled along the quiet paths, lounged around the pool, and read books. Kate worked on a needle-point project, Sidney set up an easel and painted, Joan worked on pencil drawings, and Herb napped by the pool. The peace and quiet in the air really invited relaxation and introspection. Vicky and Susan took the bikes out, and Bob and Mary went on an interesting genealogy search to locate records of Mary's ancestors from the region, and Irene and Sally chatted in comfy chairs facing the olive trees. Everyone was very content -- the weather was beautiful, and we were in good company. We really enjoyed talking to the people at Santa Maria and learning about their lives. They were always warm, welcoming, and kind to us. One night we brought out the music after dinner and danced. We had a lot of fun, and Marco brought out drums and maracas to add to the festivity. We also found out that our host, Salvatore was a successful musician. You can find his cd on iTunes -- just look up Salvatore Passaro. He played "Il Mare" for us -- a beautiful song about the sea. It was also a lot of fun to watch PJ & Hillary, a young couple in the new stages of love. They were so sweet, and when they cooked us a fish dinner, Salvatore told us that it would be extra special because their love was absorbed by the food. 

We went to Franca Villa to see an Italian procession, and afterwards some of us stumbled onto a big festival -- the town square and several blocks were covered with colored lights for the party. We explored the lovely old town of Ostuni, and one of the highlights was meeting a friend of PJ's, Tonino Zurlo, who was an olive-wood sculptor and musician. We ran into him on the street and he invited us into his studio, where he spoke passionately in Italian about his art. (Jorge got to put his Italian lessons to use by serving as our translator, and he did a very good job.) Like Michelangelo, Zurlo sees the object inside the wood, and then he carves away the excess. He had many beautiful pieces, including jewelry, cooking utensils, and decorative pieces. I came home with a new spoon and ladle that will remind me of our retreat and of this interesting man every time I use them. We had lunch in Ostuni and were shocked by the Italian family style of eating. We were stuffed and ready for the bill, but more dishes kept coming. Our stomachs just weren't up to the task, although we gave it a good shot. How do those Italians stay so thin when they eat so much?

The roadsides in this area are dotted with trulli, and these charming homes look like something out of a fairy tale. As we traveled, Warren entertained us with a song and lesson that he's going to teach to a Sunday school. He invited critique, and we indulged him! We visited the town of Alberobello, which is full of trulli. This was the only place that we ran into a lot of tourists and touristy shops, but it was a must-see because of the interesting architecture, not to mention a good gelato place to refresh ourselves. We also visited a town called Grottaglie, which was strictly a ceramic-buying outing. The whole town seems to be making pottery. We found great deals on rustic, hand-painted pieces that will again be a nice reminder of our beautiful experience in Puglia.

I think my favorite town was Martina Franca. On the way, Bob asked Marco to edit a postcard that he wrote in Italian, which inadvertently provided a lot of laughs. We'll probably all be using "Not correct!" in an Italian accent at every opportunity. In Martina Franca we first stopped at a coffee shop, and had some of the best coffee of the trip. Cappuccino was wonderful here, and a cafe granita con panna was to die for: A small cup is filled with super-thick whipped cream. They make a well, which is filled with a strong coffee gelato, and then cover it with another layer of the whipped cream. This is coffee that must be eaten with a spoon and induces states of ecstasy with every bite. We arrived on market day and many vendors were selling their wares -- clothes, sheets, curtains, flowers -- it was an outdoor mall for Italians. But what I loved most was the farmer's market. It was a dream for me -- it seemed like miles of fresh fruit and vegetable stands -- colorful, ripe produced piled high with lively folks buying and selling. There were stations selling cheese, olives, meats -- anything you can imagine to eat that was fresh from a farm. I spied a crate of fresh zucchini flowers and pounced. I've always wanted to try them, so I brought a bunch back to the masseria, and they taught us how to cook them. (I'm thinking of growing zucchini at home just to get the flowers -- they are delicious.) 

On another day we went to the Ionian coast for a day at the beach. The water was a beautiful clear turquoise color, and we enjoyed a nice, sunny day. The clouds started to roll in around lunch time, so we went to a seafood restaurant overlooking the water, and again we were served family style, which meant a whole lot of food. Dennis celebrated his birthday that day, and we gave him a birthday aum

At the masseria, we had a 3-hour cooking lesson. I was expecting to learn how to make one or two things, but Comasia kept cranking out the dishes while Ilaria translated, and I walked away with 12 recipes! Only the hard-core cooks in the group lasted the whole three hours. Comasia was amazing and had many simple, but delicious recipes. I was impressed with the way that they don't waste anything in the kitchen. If they have left-over vegetables, they make a pastry dough and stuff the vegetables inside for a delicious new incarnation. Left-over bread is used for breadcrumbs -- dry crumbs are combined with parsley and parmesan for "magic powder" that is sprinkled on many dishes, and bread soaked in water is used to make soft crumbs for stuffed eggplant. Leftover brown rice is cooked with milk, cinnamon, and raisins for a delicious hot breakfast cereal, and leftover pasta is doctored up with more herbs and cheese and then baked in the oven for a new twist. Comasia stuffed our zucchini flowers with a delicate mixture of cheese and bread crumbs and then baked them in the oven. She made pizza with fresh tomato sauce, and showed us a new way to prepare zucchini and carrots. She really inspired me, and I've been cooking up a storm at home. 

Leaving St. Maria was bittersweet. We had a marvelous time, and enjoyed meeting our new friends and visiting a part of Italy that none of us had seen before. I decided that I definitely want to return. 

We went back to Rome and back to big city life, but as yogis it's easy for us to adapt to changes. We had dinner at Al 34, near the Spanish Steps. Delicious food, lively atmosphere. Some went to a jazz club afterward, and the rest of us went to sleep. Six of the group left the next morning, and the rest of us stayed two more nights. Jorge and I literally walked all over Rome, revisiting places we knew and discovering new delights to share with people on the next trip. On our last night, we all convened at Piccolo Abruzzo on Bob's recommendation. This was a perfect ending to our trip. The restaurant looked like what you imagine an Italian restaurant to look like, and as soon as we sat down they started bringing out dish after delicious dish. The wine flowed, the conversation was lively, and it couldn't have been better. We sat next to a couple from St. Louis who turned out to be yogis -- and get this: The woman asked if any of us had ever been to Kripalu. Coincidence? I think not. 

I feel very blessed. Beautiful people -- beautiful souls -- joined me on this journey, and we saw beauty everywhere we went and we enjoyed. We were fully alive, awake, and aware -- the place yoga leads to.

Namaste!

Sandy Pradas

Check out the Yoga in Italy page for more photos and videos! 

Trigger Points -- You Need to Know This!

During the past week I've been extremely busy getting all of the last-minute details together for my yoga retreat in Italy. This means that I'm spending an inordinate amount of time sitting in front of my computer with my hip and knee joints bent at 90-degree angles. On Friday and Saturday, I spent nearly every waking moment at my desk, and on Saturday night, I stood up and suddenly felt a sharp, searing pain near my knee. I could hardly walk, and I couldn't stretch it out. Out of desperation, I took Advil, but it did nothing. The pain kept me awake all night and I limped around all day Sunday. This was worrisome, especially since I'm supposed to lead a group of people all over Italy in a few days. Finally I grabbed what I consider to be my most valuable material possession: The Trigger Point Therapy Workbook, by Clair Davies. This book has helped me countless times, and even more so, it has helped me to help others manage their pain.

I first became aware of trigger points from my massage therapist, Sheri Bergen, at Alexandria Myotherapy. Trigger points are little knots in the muscles that often send pain to another place in the body. They keep the muscle weak and the attachments tight, which can cause pain and immobility in the joints. They can't be stretched out -- they must be kneaded out. You can often take care of trigger points yourself, but if they're out of reach you'll need a massage therapist who has special training in trigger point therapy. 

I got out my handy book and found out that the muscle hurting was the sartorius. Problems with this muscle often start with a sudden twisting motion or excessive extension of the hip and are characterized by burning, searing pain along the thigh or near the inside of the knee -- people often mistake this for knee pain. But get this: To fix the pain near my knee, I had to massage the trigger points located in the upper thigh, near my groin. It's not fun to do this -- trigger points are tender and painful, especially the first time you work on them. But after only 5 minutes of massage, I'd say I had an 85% reduction in pain and I could walk without a limp. I continued to massage the trigger points several times a day, and by Tuesday night -- 3 days later -- I felt fine. 

But what do you think would happen if I went to a doctor? I think it's a safe bet to say that I could go to 5 different doctors and 5 different physical therapists around here, and every one of them would stay focused on my knee. They'd take X-rays of my knee, prescribe pain killers and exercises to strengthen my knee, and some may even suggest surgery. I seriously doubt that even one would look to my groin to heal the pain near my knee. And that's sad. There's a whole branch of knowledge out there that very few doctors know about. Many of you have heard the story about my son, who had a problem with his achilles heel: He went to foot doctors and physical therapists who only looked at his feet. He wore special boots and casts. None of it helped. When one of the doctors started talking about cutting his achilles tendon to lengthen it, I took him to Sheri. Right away she noticed that his calf muscles were extremely hard and tight and were pulling on his achilles tendon. She spent a whole hour massaging his calves, then he hopped off the table feeling better than he had in two years. After a few more home massages, he was cured.

The author of this book mentions numerous cases of people diagnosed with arthritis, carpel tunnel syndrome, chronic migraines . . .  people who've had to stop running, stop playing the violin, stop working because of chronic pain. And all were lucky enough to bump into trigger point therapy and be cured -- without drugs and without surgery. I've seen many people have amazing results once they locate their trigger points, and massage therapists see even more than I do. 

Of course the key is that you have to make the effort and do the work -- you have to massage the trigger points several times a day or go to a professional who is trained in trigger point therapy. (A professional can get in deeper and give you quicker results.) I think we need to spread the word. Why not try it? It can't hurt you, and if it leads to a better quality of life with less pain and more mobility, it's certainly worth it. 

Namaste!

Sandy Pradas


Adding Mantra to Your Practice

Most of the music that I play in class is mantra — ancient Sanskrit chants or hymns — set to soft, melodious music. I also listen to mantras accompanied by rousing drum beats or cool, funky rhythms. And if you’ve never attended a live kirtan, you should: The energy raised by the call and response of mantra must be felt to be believed. I once attended a puja where we chanted the 1,000 names of God. By the end, the energy in the air and in our bodies was electric. We were awake all night, extremely alert but happy and relaxed. The conversations ran deep. The power of mantra had left its mark.

According to yogic scholar, Georg Feuerstein, a mantra is “a sacred sound charged with psychospiritual power used as a vehicle of meditative transformation.” Some form of chanting has been used in rituals and ceremonies since the Stone Age. The universe is in a perpetual state of vibration; sound is a form of vibration; and the ancient Sanskrit language has a special vibrational quality. All of this vibration makes mantra yoga an effective practice in itself. It replaces “busy thoughts” with sacred sounds, and the vibrational and energetic qualities embedded in the words can help clear out old gunk in the mind and bring you to a new state of consciousness.

About a year ago I was taking one of Vandita’s classes at Kripalu, and she played a mantra CD by Shivanand Thomas Amelio. I was instantly struck — almost shocked — by its power. There were no instruments other than Amelio’s deep, amazingly resonant voice. These mantras are so pure and authentic that they can seep into all of the nooks and crannies and crevices of your being and work their magic. There is no need for a catchy hook to distract you.

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If you’d like to hear a sample or order his cd, “Mantra Darshan,” click here: https://www.klaritymusic.com/Albumview.cfm?AlbumId=513

Remember that this is music with a purpose: Mantra is used for transformation. In the cd insert, Amelio says that those who’ve had little success with other forms of meditation can become deeply absorbed while listening to this cd or chanting along with it. I’ve used this cd as a meditation, and also play it during my yoga practice, while cooking or washing dishes, and lately with all the construction on the Beltway, I’ve been listening to it while sitting in traffic. I feel that soaking up all this spiritual energy helps to keep me in my higher self.

After listening to the cd a few times, you might find yourself drawn to a specific mantra that you want to hear over and over again. Go with it – working with a single mantra can lead to a powerful experience. You can benefit from listening, singing out loud, or singing mentally.

Sometimes students are wary of chanting mantras because they don’t know what they’re saying and they are concerned that they would be worshipping another God.  But the idea is that there is one God who goes by many names. The various deities, such as Shiva or Rama, represent individual energetic qualities or facets of God. Intention is everything – where you send it is where it goes. Even if you don’t believe in God, if you are sending your intention to your higher self, you will receive the benefits.

I asked Shivanand if he had any tips to pass on to you regarding the singing of mantras, and he emphasized trying to pronounce the words correctly to get the optimum vibration and resulting effect. “While intention is indeed paramount in the practice of mantra, I feel that good (not perfect!) pronunciation of the Sanskrit optimizes and expands one's good intentions, as the specific sounds touch certain energy centers in the body -- just as drinking peppermint tea will have a different effect from drinking chamomile. That said, purity of intention reigns supreme.”

To read more about Shivanand Thomas Amelio, click here: http://www.shivananda.net/content/view/17/27/

I encourage you to give mantra a try and see if it makes a difference in your life. Give it some time, and let me know what happens.

Namaste!

Sandy Pradas

Meditation in Motion

Practice as you are guided from within.
Feel for the unspoken, settle into the stillness,
and slowly you will release the burdens
from your tissues.
The knots within will loosen, and the pressures will ease.

 -- unknown (if you know the author, please let me know so I can give credit.)


Practice as you are guided from within... This is usually how my home practice works. If you're new to yoga, this is difficult, but once you've practiced to the point of being able to connect inside, or as I like to say, "tap into the soul," this type of practice will serve you well. At Kripalu, they call it meditation in motion, and I absolutely love it. Here's how it works for me: 

I start out seated on my meditation cushion and go into dirgha and ujjayi breath. I get into a meditative state, and I don't move until I feel moved from the inside. I don't think about what to do -- I keep my mind in the background so that my entire practice arises spontaneously. It's different every time -- sometimes gentle, sometimes very vigorous, sometimes lots of inversions or lots of twists or long holds, sometimes lots of spontaneous pranayama. It's always a surprise, and it's always just what my body needs. Meditation in motion is considered an advanced practice, so if it doesn't come easily to you, don't worry. As Pattabhi Jois always said, "Practice, and all is coming."


Namaste!

Sandy Pradas

Letters from God

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Meditative writing is a technique that works wonders for me when I need clarification or direction. I keep a notebook that I call "Letters from God," and when I'm stumped by life or overwhelmed by a situation, I bring it to my meditation cushion. Here's how it works: I write down the question, e.g., "What should I do about this situation?" Then I set it aside and get into a comfortable position and start focusing on ujjayi breathing, (click here to learn ujjayi) bringing myself to a quiet, meditative state so that my mind is out of the way. I wait until I hear the inner sound of my own name being called, which signals that the answer is coming. Then I pick up the pen and paper and write down my name and whatever comes next. There's no thinking, no doubting -- just writing. I'm always amazed at how the answer flows out and how helpful it is. It's also helpful every now and then to go back and read my old letters. 

Try this technique for yourself. Remember -- don't think. You want the answer to come from deep within, not from the mind. 

Namaste!

Sandy Pradas

Things I Learned in Costa Rica

la paz aumIt's no secret that I love Costa Rica. Over the last 7 years, I've visited Costa Rica many times, and have shared my passion for this little country with students and their friends and families on at least 10 yoga retreats. People often ask me what drew me to Costa Rica in the first place.  

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There's a saying that sometimes you can be homesick for a place that you've never been to, and for me that was the case with Costa Rica. Even though I knew nothing about it, I had it in my head that I needed to go there. When I turned 39 it became almost urgent, but I was a single mother and couldn't even afford to take my son to nearby Virginia Beach. But then I got a nice tax refund, and while I had plenty of practical needs for that money, I found myself inside a travel agency. It turned out that a trip for two to Costa Rica would cost almost the exact amount of my tax refund. I left with the tickets in hand and my son and I began to plan our exciting adventure.

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We had a fabulous time and some great mother-son bonding over zip-lining, horse-back riding, hiking in the rainforest, and relaxing on the beach. We were charmed by the warm, friendly Costa Ricans and the natural beauty that surrounded us wherever we went. We quickly lost our desire for cell phones, internet, and TV -- who needs that when you can see a  volcano dramatically appear through the clouds, or watch a Scarlet Macaw fly through the sky like some prehistoric creature? I thought about how much my yoga students would love it, and I started to make plans for a retreat. 

I checked out the usuImg1182al places and methods of yoga retreats, but they didn't appeal to me. I knew my students: yoga was a part of their healthy lifestyle -- they loved it, but most weren't practicing every day and reading the ancient texts. Most of them were not vegetarians, and most of them wanted to be comfortable on a trip. And they were interested in everything and wanted to learn and explore and experience. So sleeping in tent camps with a strict vegetarian and no-caffeine diet and doing several hours of yoga a day were out. I planned a unique yoga vacation, with excellent local guides, and then hoped and prayed that I'd get at least eight people to come with me so I could make it happen. I got 30! . . . We had a fabulous time and people wanted to do it again and again, so we keep doing it. We visit different parts of the country for variety, and I've limited the trips to 16 - 18 people to keep them more intimate, and I've been honored by how many people have been repeat customers. We get couples and singles of all ages, and I've had people tell me that going on these trips has changed their lives. Some have formed close, lasting friendships. Many became much more conscious of the environment and the plants and animals that share the planet with us -- Costa Rica seems to sink into your bones. And I've converted a few husbands to yoga -- they came with their wives just to see Costa Rica and ended up falling in love with yoga too! 

Little did I know that my first trip to Costa Rica would lead me down this path -- and lead so many others down a new path as well. We're going again in January, so if you want to join us, click here to read all about it, and sign up soon to reserve a spot.

What are some things I learned in Costa Rica? 

1. The rainforest is full of prana. It's palpable, and this special energy seems to affect everyone who is near it in a positive way. 

2. Simple is better. I once heard a Tico wondering why anyone would buy a toaster that could only make toast, when you can make delicious toast in a pan that will also cook many other things. (I now make my toast in a cast-iron pan.) Another time I was very impressed with a 6-year-old who was playing with a tiny motor that he found. It looked like it had been a part of a bigger, better toy, but this kid was fascinated by this motor. He kept drawing pictures of wonderfully inventive machines that he imagined the motor could operate. How wonderful for him! 

3. Rice and beans makes a good breakfast! Gallo Pinto, a tasty version of rice and beans is the national breakfast. It's delicious, it has lots of protein, and it's filling and satisfying and provides good energy for the day.

4. We should all slow down. Sitting on a porch watching the rain is a very pleasant activity that's good for the soul. If you aren't in a hurry, you might notice a moth with an incredibly intricate pattern. Or you might have a conversation with a stranger that gives you both a lift for the rest of the day. Once we were stuck in a traffic jam. While the Americans grumbled, the Costa Ricans in the van seemed to think it was party time and took it as an opportunity to get to know each other better. 

5. We should live in harmony with nature. I've learned so much about plants and animals from the Costa Ricans, and I've visited people who think nothing of the snake that lives in a crack in the wall or a few little bugs around the house. I'm much less of a scaredy-cat and much more respectful of all creatures. (However, I'm still not enlightened enough to be able to knowingly live with a snake in my house!)

6. Parties should have music and dancing! More than one Tico has asked me why we just sit around and talk at parties. Over there, the furniture gets pushed back to make room for dancing.

7. Any country who abolishes their army and spends the money on education and healthcare for its people is a country we can learn from.

M.A. Park II

Namaste!

Sandy Pradas


One-Pointed Focus and Profound Relaxation

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Last week one of my students told me that by the end of each class she feels like she's been given a drug, and she marveled over how she can relax so much more deeply than she can at home. She said she thought of Michael Jackson, and that maybe if he had practiced yoga he wouldn't need drugs to help him sleep. 

I know what she means about that drug-like effect -- nothing can relax me like a good yoga practice, and by the end I'm practically in an altered state and the relaxation is profound. What causes this effect, and why does it only happen in some types of yoga classes and not others?

I believe this profound relaxation is a direct result of deep, inward focus. I start each class by helping students to shed layers of tension and stress -- physical as well as mental/emotional -- and then I guide them inside, focusing on breath and sensation, and try to keep them there. I lead the postures in a deliberate progression: stress relief, intense focus, and deep relaxation -- all the while maintaining a deep, inner focus -- until they're ready to slip right into savasana. 

The mind is a like a drunken monkey -- always jumping about here and there -- but as we progress through the class, the mind becomes increasingly still. The point of putting our bodies in awkward positions is not for the body (although we get a secondary health benefit); the purpose is actually to quiet the mind. If you're standing on one leg with your body leaning forward and the other leg out behind you, the mind has to stop and put all of it's attention on keeping you upright. You can't multi-task in this position. All you can do is breathe and focus and try to stay steady, inside and out. And you learn that how you use your breath affects your strength, balance, emotional state, and ability to relax yourself. After a full hour or so of the mind being in a state of one-pointed focus, relaxation comes easily. 

Personally, I find it difficult to achieve this same result in practices that focus only on the body. Whether it's an intense physical practice   or a class where there are loads of adjustments or frequent stopping to talk about alignment, I find that I'm being pulled out of my center -- away from my inner focus -- and I don't get the cumulative effect of continued, deep inner focus. Focusing intently on something outside doesn't have the same effect as focusing deeply on the inside. It may leave me exhausted, but not relaxed. And if savasana is too short, then I don't even get the chance to enjoy the most important part of yoga. It can take 5 minutes to settle into savasana, so if it's only 5 minutes or less, it doesn't happen. I find that my 15-minute savasana/meditation time usually becomes everyone's favorite part of the class. It gives them the time to go deep and have a truly integrating experience. 

Of course, focusing the mind is a practice. New students may not be able to relax right away, or if you have an intense situation in your life, relaxing may be more difficult. But these classes are designed to make it possible for anyone who wants to try, and with practice comes results!

Namaste!

Sandy Pradas

Moving from Fear to Love

The other day I was reading the newspaper -- full of stories of crime, murder, and political unrest -- and I thought to myself, "Geez. Some people live in a terrible world." I noticed that I said it as if I didn't live in that same world, and then I realized that I don't. 

Years ago, before I became a yogi, reading the paper and watching the news could leave me almost quaking with fear. I thought we lived in a horrible world, and I felt lucky to have made it through the day without getting shot or mugged. Soon after I started a regular practice of yoga and meditation, I realized how much I was controlled by my mind, and how fearful the mind actually is. It's always spinning stories, comparing, searching for danger and distorting situations. The mind causes a lot of trouble! But recognizing this gives the mind less power, and the more I practiced, the more I was able to move away from the mind and started operating from a different place: my soul (or center, or Self). 

The soul doesn't operate from fear; it operates from a place of loving, calm acceptance. When looking out from the soul, my perceptions about everything and everyone began to change. I had a couple of years just marveling over all my new discoveries -- just like being a child again, but this time I had a different blueprint to follow.  As my perceptions changed, my world changed. They say you create the world you live in, and I had proof that this is true. People in my life who were negative drifted off, and I seemed to attract a whole lot of like-minded positive people. Opportunities opened up that would take me further down this wonderful, new path. Even if things weren't "good," they were "interesting," and I learned to just watch life unfold and wait to see what would happen and where it would lead.

Am I always positive and never fearful? Absolutely not. I am human, and I slip up plenty. But my regular practice enables me to see it, to realize it, and to go back to center and figure out what's really going on without the fear-based interpretation of the mind. And from this different viewpoint, life is good. The world is beautiful and people are wonderful, complicated, interesting beings. I try not to engage in low-level or fear-based thinking. Destruction and revenge aren't a part of my life. People in my world are positive people who make the world a better place. Yes, we are all brothers and sisters sharing this planet, but we are all on different parts of the path and must go through many twists and turns. So in effect, it's as if there are two separate worlds: One based on fear and one based on love. If you're stuck in fear, you can always pack up and move. We have plenty of room, and you're always welcome!


Namaste!

Sandy Pradas

Slow Down Your Mind

Mind racing? Try this technique to slow it down: Practice dirgha and ujjayi breathing. (Click the tutorial on the "How Can Yoga Help Me" page.) As you exhale, say to yourself "aummmmmmmmm" in a slow and deliberate manner. Adding this mantra will lengthen the exhale, bringing more relaxation and creating more space between your racing thoughts. It also replaces your thoughts with positive energy. Once you have that down, add to it: As you exhale, say to yourself, "aum, shanti, shanti, shanti." (Shanti means peace.) 

Try it, and let me know what happens!

Namaste!

Sandy Pradas

Try a New Perspective


The next time you are dealing with a situation that is frustrating, aggravating, or confusing, try this: Sit down, take a deep breath, and close your eyes for a moment. Instead of thinking about the situation from the usual place in your brain, think about it from your "third eye." Focus on the third eye -- the area between the brows -- and view your problem from there. Keep the area soft and relaxed. Don't strain. Notice what happens: The problem doesn't go away and isn't instantly solved, but you can look at the situation without getting caught up in the emotion and angst. You are more of an observer -- a witness -- and this can make it easier to deal with. While it's ideal to be able to close your eyes, you don't have to. 

Yesterday I was helping my son shop for a car. I was getting worn down by so much information flying around from different sources with different agendas. It was taking a long time, and emotion was creeping into the decision, so I decided to "think" with my third eye. It was immediately calming, and helped me to hold all of the information without the emotion. I have a student who is using this technique while caring for her aging mother. She says it helps a lot when it gets stressful. So keep it in mind -- it's easy to do, can't hurt, and can help a whole lot.


Namaste!

Sandy Pradas

Yoga & Food, part II

In my last post I mentioned that by following a few simple principles of ayurveda, I lost 5 pounds without trying or feeling deprived. Intrigued, I kept reading more about ayurveda. Vasant Lad's book recommended a home detox program at the change of seasons, and I was pondering whether or not to try this when my friend Susan invited me to share a detox weekend at her beach house. 

She was inspired by recipes in Yoga Journal, http://www.yogajournal.com/lifestyle/2841, and I wanted a more ayurvedic-style detox, so we combined the two styles for a detox plan that included a variety of foods that were nutritious and easy to digest -- this meant making a more traditional kitcheri recipe and leaving out recipes with heavy spices and raw veggies. Since I have problems with low blood sugar, I've never been interested in juice fasts or other near-starvation plans, so I thought this would be a workable compromise. 

In accordance with my book (see the link below), I began preparing for the detox a few days in advance by giving myself a sesame oil massage every morning and drinking ghee. The purpose of drinking ghee was to lubricate my insides so toxins could easily be released from my tissues. I was supposed to drink 4 tablespoons, but this proved difficult because I am not used to eating butter. I decided that 2 tablespoons per day was enough. I also starting drinking triphala tea at night, made by putting 1/2 teaspoon of triphala powder into a cup of hot water and letting it steep for about 10 minutes. This is an essential detox aid with a very mild laxative effect. 

We started our detox weekend with a "cocktail" of beet/watermelon juice served in wine glasses. Yum! This is one of my favorite juices. It has a beautiful color and beets are excellent for cleansing the blood. For dinner we ate small portions of kitcheri and steamed collard greens with miso-tahini dressing and drank herbal tea. We ate slowly and with awareness. After a few hours of girl-talk, we did some restorative yoga and drank our triphala tea. This was the hardest part of the entire detox plan. Triphala tea does not taste good and there doesn't seem to be anything you can do to change that. Adding lemon or ginger or honey only seems to make it worse. I've found that using only 1/4 of a teaspoon is more tolerable, but I suppose less effective. 

Because I eat a healthy diet of mostly fruits and vegetables and a little fish, I wasn't expecting to feel any changes from the detox diet, but when I woke up in the morning I was tingling all over. I had an enormous amount of energy and bounced right out of bed, ready to take on the day. (This was highly unusual for me -- I am not a morning person.) I could feel Prana vibrating in every cell -- it was similar to how I feel after doing the deeper yoga practices. I found Susan in the living room, and she was feeling the same way. Is kitcheri really that magical? Or was it the combination of what we didn't eat combined with eating high-energy food, relaxation, and yoga? I'm sure that going on retreat had a lot to do with it. We removed ourselves from our busy lives, so there was no stress and nothing to do except take care of ourselves.

We spent the rest of the weekend doing yoga, eating quinoa with flax seeds and dried fruit, Ocean-veggie stir-fry, carrot-ginger soup, and drinking almond milk, herbal teas, veggie juice, and the dreaded triphala tea. We read, meditated, and had a lot of good conversation. On the afternoon that we had soup for lunch our energy started to wane from the lack of solid food, but after a nap and a snack we felt better. We both noticed that we were more flexible than usual in our yoga practice and were able to go into deep meditation more quickly. We realized that the food we eat -- and the food we don't eat -- makes a huge difference in how we feel. What we put into our bodies effects us on a cellular level. If we could experience these changes in just a weekend, imagine how paying attention to your food would affect the rest of your life...

Namaste!

Sandy Pradas




Yoga and Food

One of the first things I noticed when I started practicing yoga was that I could suddenly "hear" my body telling me what it wanted to eat, what it didn't want to eat, and when to stop. A regular daily practice brings us sharply in tune with our bodies, so we naturally become more aware of its needs and realize that our bodies actually have a lot to say if we'd only listen. We also begin to realize how often we let the mind overrule the body's needs -- we ignore it's needs for sleep, exercise, and proper nutrition so we can burn the candle at both ends or fill an emotional hole, or maybe we push it too far -- running our bodies into the ground so we can meet our ego's goals for excessive exercise or extreme adventure. 

Simply listening to my body kept me in good shape and good health for many years. But when I hit 43 things started changing. (I suspect those things are hormones.) My metabolism seemed to come to a dead stop. I gained some weight on our honeymoon in Italy, but I wasn't worried because I'd always been able to quickly get rid of excess pounds by eating soup, salad, or cereal for a couple of days. Unfortunately, that no longer worked. No matter how much I exercised or how little I ate, my weight didn't budge. I joined a gym and started working out frantically on all kinds of machines, but after eight months I hadn't lost any weight and I had a lot of injuries and very stiff joints and muscles. I was getting very upset and unhappy with my body for hanging on to this weight, but I needed to be yogic and love my body as it was. I quit the gym and went back to doing only the things that my body loves: yoga, dancing, and walking or biking outdoors. I wore ski clothes to keep walking in the winter. I recovered from the injuries, and even though my weight didn't change, I could appreciate the fact that I was strong, flexible, healthy, and felt really good. 

While flying home from our latest yoga retreat in Costa Rica, I read an article about diet mistakes that people tend to make according to Ayurveda. It said that my constitution -- Pitta -- can make the mistake of eating too many spicy and pungent foods. While these foods aren't necessarily fattening, they can cause inflammation and water retention -- issues that I was certainly struggling with. So I decided to implement a few ayurvedic practices:

For Pitta dosha:

1. Cut back on chiles and pungent foods and use more cooling spices instead.

For everyone:

2. Each morning, before eating or drinking anything else, drink a glass of room-temperature water with a squeeze of fresh lemon or lime juice to flush the kidneys, gastrointestinal tract, and hydrate the body.

3. Never drink anything cold or iced, as it interferes with digestion and other metabolic processes. Drink only room temperature or warm drinks. And don't drink too much during meals for the same reason. Just take small sips while eating. 

4. Pack your own healthy snacks and lunch to avoid restaurant food and processed snacks. (I now eat fresh veggies and yogurt dip instead of granola bars between classes.)

5. Make a "bowl" by bringing your hands together -- pinky fingers touching. In one sitting, don't eat any more than what would fit into your own two hands. 

These were just simple changes that didn't involve deprivation at all, so I was very surprised to find myself losing my excess 5 pounds  and no longer having problems with water retention. And I was also surprised that I no longer craved my afternoon coffee and chocolate. In the meantime, I learned more about Ayurveda and went on a moderate detox weekend with a friend, which I'll talk about in my next post, so stay tuned!

Namaste!

Sandy Pradas

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